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Against Equality in Australia!

 

Against Equality was invited to participate in the "After Homosexual: The Legacies of Gay Liberation" conference in Melbourne, Australia.  The two-day conference begins on February 3, and Ryan Conrad is flying there as you read this. 

Cynthia Nixon Is Not My Choice for A Hero

Poor Cynthia Nixon.  Once the darling of Teh Gayz, she must now be wondering what she did to earn the ire of those she worked so hard to please.  

Make Marriage Work Like Disappearing Ink: Mexico Contemplates Two-year Marital Contracts

I don't usually care about marriage news because, well, I don't generally care about marriage, period. But this recent piece from Reuters intrigued and delighted me: Mexico City lawmakers are contemplating issuing temporary marriage licenses.

According to Reuters, "Leftists in the city's assembly -- who have already riled conservatives by legalizing gay marriage -- proposed a reform to the civil code this week that would allow couples to decide on the length of their commitment, opting out of a lifetime."

Even better: "The contracts would include provisions on how children and property would be handled if the couple splits."

This is, I think, the perfect solution to the intractable and painful process that marriage often becomes for many people. Divorce in a predominantly Catholic country like Mexico is, I imagine, both culturally and economically stressful and while it may be more acceptable here, nothing makes you feel more vulnerable than the drawn out process of deciding who gets the $24.99 toaster you received as a wedding gift, or the 13-year-old kid whose onerous college fees can be seen looming in the near future.

This is a perfect solution: Make marriage work like disappearing ink. Get married, see how it works out for two years - a reasonable time period to decide who gets to take out the garbage and who gets the left side of the bed and, of course, whether or not you'd actually want to continue living with each other for much longer.

I like this. There are, of course, logistical issues to consider. [click on  "Read More" below]

“Neoliberalism’s Handiest Little Tool”: Against Equality on Marriage - Interview in No More Potlucks

Ryan Conrad and I, as members of Against Equality, were interviewed by Joshua Pavan for one of our favourite publications, No More Potlucks (where I'm also a regular contributor).  Here are some excerpts:

My WBEZ (NPR Chicago) interview [June 1]

On June 1, Illinois began instituting its first civil unions, with much fanfare in the gay community.  To their very great credit, WBEZ, the NPR affiliate in Chicago, decided to provide more than one view about gay marriage amongst queers.  I was on the popular morning program Eight Forty-Eight, hosted by Alison Cuddy, to talk about why gay marriage is not and should not be a priority for many of us, and about the work of Against Equality, the editorial collective of which I am a part.  You can listen to the entire interview here:

A "Curvey" nomination AND an "amicable discussion about smashing capitalism in history" in Time Out Chicago!

It has been a while since I posted here, but now that the Against Equality book is published, things will start winding down and I will be posting with the same regularity. Much has been happening, and here are just a couple of highlights.

Yasmin on the front page of Chicago Sun-Times [September 23, 2009]

This image (soon to be replaced by a larger one, bear with us) appeared on the front page of the Chicago Sun-Times. Yasmin was interviewed for a cover story titled, "Are single getting a raw deal?" which appeared on September 23, 2009 to mark Singles Week.

Yasmin featured in Tikkun article, "The Transformative Promise of Queer Politics" [July 2010]

In May 2010, I was interviewed by Tikkun’s assistant editor, Alana Yu-Lan Price, for a forthcoming piece on the contemporary queer movement.  That piece, titled “The Transformative Promise of Queer Politics,” and the issue it appears in can be found on newstands and on the web here:

http://www.tikkun.org/article.php/july2010_price

Yasmin and Ryan Conrad on KBOO Community Radio, talking about Against Equality [22 March, 2010]

Ryan Conrad and I were on KBOO Community Radio (Portland, Oregon), talking about the Against Equality project.  Here's the description from the station's website:

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